I know how hard to convince ourselves every time we feel down and lonely to be optimistic. But its great to have journals that will help us to remind us to choose to live our life in positivity.So here are the list of things that can help us to be positive in life:
Everyone is special in their own way. We race in different values, cultures,s and family backgrounds. So it is okay to be different or unique in short to be one of a kind. Accept our differences and embrace who you are.
2. You can't please everybody. It's okay if they don't like you.
It's their problem not yours.No matter what you do or how nice you are there will be certain people who wouldn't be happy for you or will hate you for being you. So the best solution is to ignore them and always remember the people who are matter, like God, family, friends----who really love and care for you genuinely. Lastly, trust yourself because among all the only people who really know who you are is yourself. As James Reid said that "you could be the tastiest peach in the world but there will be gonna one who hates peaches". In short, there will be haters everywhere so better to live your life without allowing them to live with you.
3. Be yourself
Don't try or pretend to be anyone else or to please other people for the sake to look good to others. Better to express yourself whether you are tough, sarcastic, sassy, or mean sometimes.As long as that's how you feel at that moment. But be careful not to be rude. You can say no but still, you are a good person.
Don't try or pretend to be anyone else or to please other people for the sake to look good to others. Better to express yourself whether you are tough, sarcastic, sassy, or mean sometimes.As long as that's how you feel at that moment. But be careful not to be rude. You can say no but still, you are a good person.
4. Take the criticism as your motivation to do well or room for improvement
Sometimes it's not easy to hear criticism or negative opinions from people. But sometimes you need to brush it off and just filter things that help you to improve. Don't let your mind sink it! make yourself believe it's true. Remember you know yourself very well.
Sometimes it's not easy to hear criticism or negative opinions from people. But sometimes you need to brush it off and just filter things that help you to improve. Don't let your mind sink it! make yourself believe it's true. Remember you know yourself very well.
Never let them affect you! You have choices. Be positive. ( tell your mind I don't care, it's my life! and I don't need to please anyone to be accepted).
5. Be happy with other success
We have a different path of life and journey so don't compare yourselves with other people's success. They might be in their middle pages while you are still on the second part of the journey. Remember envies and jealousy, won't make you successful.
We have a different path of life and journey so don't compare yourselves with other people's success. They might be in their middle pages while you are still on the second part of the journey. Remember envies and jealousy, won't make you successful.
The only person you can compete with is your old self.
Improve yourself from yesterday then keep moving forward. Be humble yet confidently beautiful with a heart. Better focus on your own journey and think about how to improve yourself and to live life to the fullest.
6. Be open-minded and not to be judgmental
Give the benefit of the doubt and chances to everybody. Nobody is perfect even you, so don't be cynical.
Give the benefit of the doubt and chances to everybody. Nobody is perfect even you, so don't be cynical.
7. Keep your values and principles in life
You don't need to convince everyone to be on your side or to agree with you. As long you are happy and you think it was the right thing to do. You better pursue it and follow your heart. In short, as long you are happy that's all that matters.
You don't need to convince everyone to be on your side or to agree with you. As long you are happy and you think it was the right thing to do. You better pursue it and follow your heart. In short, as long you are happy that's all that matters.
8. Be happy and enjoy life, give plenty of love and chase your goals & dreams.
You don't need to feel guilty about other people as long as you believe that you haven't done anything wrong with them. If still, they don't like you it means they do have problems with themselves. (Insecurity can kill people improvement and you won't able to be forever satisfied with yourself and your success) you always compare and compete, then you forget that you are also special in your own way.
You don't need to feel guilty about other people as long as you believe that you haven't done anything wrong with them. If still, they don't like you it means they do have problems with themselves. (Insecurity can kill people improvement and you won't able to be forever satisfied with yourself and your success) you always compare and compete, then you forget that you are also special in your own way.
9. Do want you to want and follow your heart
As long as you are happy and you know you're doing right you don't need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about pursuing your dreams, your passion, your hobbies, and your likes or love because you are the main lead of your own stories and the writer of your life. So don't mind other people because it's your life I'm sure they do have one too. In case, you make mistakes in your decision in life it doesn't matter coz nobody is perfect at all. The thing you need to do is to pull yourself back and keep moving forward. Bad Experiences and failures keep you a stronger, smarter, wise, and better person.
As long as you are happy and you know you're doing right you don't need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about pursuing your dreams, your passion, your hobbies, and your likes or love because you are the main lead of your own stories and the writer of your life. So don't mind other people because it's your life I'm sure they do have one too. In case, you make mistakes in your decision in life it doesn't matter coz nobody is perfect at all. The thing you need to do is to pull yourself back and keep moving forward. Bad Experiences and failures keep you a stronger, smarter, wise, and better person.
10. Keep your relationship with God.
God first before the rest
God first before the rest
With God nothing is impossible! He always keeps himself grounded and to be humane again. Pray and talk to him in times you feel lost. He always is the one who will love you, care for you, and listen to you in times you feel lonely and alone. He could be your best friend who you can trust to anything or rely upon without asking in return.
11. Stay Down-to-Earth
Keep yourself as private as possible and mysterious. Be humble and modest. Don't think you are better than others. Always think "back-to-basic" and one foot forward so you keep yourself grounded. It pushes you to continue to strive and determination for improvement.
Lastly, Keep your greatness with the lord.
To God to be all the glory! π
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