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Sometimes people want to take your position without knowing what is like to be you, and doesn't want to take what included responsibilties you endure and take just to live, but they just only want the privilage part (popularity and the glory but hate when its rain--- when the problem and trials appear, they try to bail out) trivia: Honestly, I like tea 🍵 more than coffee but just like to compare myself with characteristic that has the coffee. ☕

One thing, I learn working at dramatic and chaotic- gossip environment is to manage my reaction and my feelings. I need to listen first and be patience.... To clear my mind... Before I react and make decision. I need to check the person intentions and purpose why she said it and doing this intentionally. Think before you speak and act. Need to manage my tone of voice while speaking especially when I answering back and explaining something. People make you feel you are weird ( To the things that you can't do anything about it - it exist and its uncontrollable or - its already there in the first place and even myself I can't explain but in order to live I accept things what it is. All I know and I just accept it that maybe its a gift from above. But honestly, everyone has a weirdness, unsual attitude & traits and has a dorky side. And if people, slap this things on your face, makes fun of you, make you such a weird person. Maybe they are the problem, ...

  🌼 Take chance and risk - but make sure the person want the same ( want to work out with you so badly too) and also choosing you. 🌼 Unsure or unclear / vague/ to many alibi or reasoning means "NO"  🌼 You don't need to fight for the love but the person will choose you over and over again. ( But make some effort but not to the extent you sacrifice your worth) 🌼  Two things you should not chase love and  friendship. 🌼 You don't need to do anything to prove you are worthy and try so hard to impress the person. 🌼  You don't need to change yourself to be like but be yourself. Impress them but naturally want to get to know you more. 🌼 Don't force person to be with you or like you. Make effort but never put yourself on the situation that you begging ( look stupid and pathetic) 🌼 You can change the person let them realize it. If they want it they will. Let it be and move on. 🌼 Less expectation. Less disappointment. Accept the person flaws and more ap...