🌼 Take chance and risk - but make sure the person want the same ( want to work out with you so badly too) and also choosing you.
🌼 Unsure or unclear / vague/ to many alibi or reasoning means "NO"
🌼 You don't need to fight for the love but the person will choose you over and over again. ( But make some effort but not to the extent you sacrifice your worth)
🌼 Two things you should not chase love and
friendship.
🌼 You don't need to do anything to prove you are worthy and try so hard to impress the person.
🌼 You don't need to change yourself to be like but be yourself. Impress them but naturally want to get to know you more.
🌼 Don't force person to be with you or like you. Make effort but never put yourself on the situation that you begging ( look stupid and pathetic)
🌼 You can change the person let them realize it. If they want it they will. Let it be and move on.
🌼 Less expectation. Less disappointment.
Accept the person flaws and more appreciation and gratitude.
🌼 You can't fix the person or their own problem but try to be a good support system.
🌼 Stay where you feel love and appreciate.
( Make you feel confident, happy and blessed)
🌼 Check your negative attitude and let heal yourself
🌼 Be open minded, broad minded and understanding
🌼 Be Honest. Avoid pretending- be considerate but not to the extent you are trying to beating around the bush or avoid the person getting hurt )
🌼 You are not a super hero or invincible. You can't save everyone but they have to kill their own poison.
🌼 You don't need to do anything or work for it just to be appreciate. Sometimes your present is enough if you are really matter.
🌼 Learn to acknowledge you are not perfect, you have flaws, you are toxic too. Learn to fix it on your own.
🌼 Learn to appreciate small or big efforts.
🌼 Stop controlling the uncontrollable things. Let it be.
🌼 If people want to change for the better they will.
🌼 Stop projecting negative experience, insecurities, and how you feel to other people. Learn to heal and recognize your toxic traits.
🌼 Be real, and genuine on how you feel. Stop sugar coating. Be expressive. A good listener or communicator. ( But watch out with your words and how you deliver it)
🌼 Admit you are not always right. Admit you need some room of improvement and willing change for the better.
🌼 You don't need to try so hard to work it but it will happen natural. ( Creating connection, chemistry and conversation)
🌼 Be nice but know your limits and boundaries.
🌼 Trust but learn when the time you need to walk out. ( Its hard but do the right thing)
🌼 Follow your heart and your happiness - but choose the will of the Lord. In the end of the day, every good decision will have better result than things from wrong choices. So ask God for guidance in making decision.
🌼Don't make permanent decision with temporary feelings ( when you are happy, upset, or too emotional)
🌼 Give support and love but reflect things that needs for room of improvement. ( Make yourself a better person)
🌼 Less expectation. More appreciative. ( your ideal is different with reality to avoid disappointment stop making it on how it should be)
🌼 Don't compare the people around you because we do have different path life, character, abilities, experience, knowledge and skills.
🌼 Find a great support system were you feel appreciate and accepted.
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